Navigating Grief: Wisdom From Eight Women Who Understand

As we approach Mother's Day, a day meant to celebrate the incredible bond between mothers and daughters, we at The Heart of Miss Bee, Inc. recognize that for many women, this day may bring a mix of emotions, especially for those who are grieving the loss of their mothers.

In our Healing Hearts Online Grief Support Group, we recently asked our members to reflect on their grief journey and share the advice they would offer to someone grieving.

Their insights and wisdom provide hope and understanding to those navigating the rugged terrain of grief.

Grief is a journey that is unique to each individual, yet some universal truths and experiences connect us all. Through our members' shared experiences and advice, we hope to provide comfort, support, and guidance to women who are grieving the loss of their mothers, particularly as Mother's Day approaches.

Continue reading as we share the heartfelt advice and insights from our members.

In the meantime, know that you are not alone in your grief journey.

It is important to grieve because nongrieving is a thief. It is your memories that keep them alive inside of you. Grief is honoring who they are to you and heals your feeling of loss. Take each day, heartache, and memories to create a forever bouquet of flowers you can smell on their behalf. When you want to share their beauty, I am here. ~Arlinda Davis , 2023 Nexstar Media Group Remarkable Woman Winner
I would honestly say allow yourself to feel all the feelings. It is important to recognize all the transitions that happen in your life when you are traveling a grief journey. I regret waiting so long to seek help because I was in denial. ~Tijania Goodwin
I'm here for you. I really mean it. Trust God. There is no time-line. Anybody who tells you to get over it, walk away from them. Keep walking away from them. I love you and I am praying for you and yours. ~ Laletta Taylor
Don't judge! Accept the individual's journey. Everyone is different. ~Diana Clark-Taylor
When the old pass away, God will make a way for things to become new, so you will have a new life. ~Fuschia Queen
There's no timetable or pretty path in regards to grief. Some days it's manageable. Other days it's ugly. And it's ALL normal. ~Kim Evans Hawkins
Just simply take your time. it's a process. My moods are over the place sometimes, but I try to allow grace, patience for me. And that's okay. ~Benita Williams
Grief is a living breathing thing. It doesn't always have to be sadness. I find comfort telling silly stories about my sister. Sometimes the tears fall and that's ok too. Don't allow anyone to tell you where you should be in your journey. I have a journal that I write letters to my sister. It's a safe place. I am realizing that God is the safest place to recover. ~Nene Denise

The Heart of Miss Bee, Inc. is here to offer support, compassion, education, community and understanding every step of the way.

Kinyatta E. Gray writes about grief and loss and founded The Heart of Miss Bee, Inc., Flights In Stilettos, and InHer Bliss Life Coaching. Gray has designed and released over 20 guided and blank journals for women, teens, and men.