Photos Aren't Enough: Why Capturing Video Moments of Your Loved Ones Matters
In 2019, just a year after losing my mom, I often encouraged others to take photos of their mothers—to freeze those precious moments in time. Those photos became treasures, a way to see her smile again or remember the little details I never wanted to forget.
Now, as we step into 2025, I realize how much more videos can offer. Videos are a time capsule, preserving the essence of our loved ones—their voices, their laughter, their mannerisms, and the energy they brought into a room. Pictures capture moments, but videos capture the soul of those moments.
In this digital age, where we carry video equipment in our pockets, there’s no excuse not to document the people we love most. These videos can become invaluable reminders of the love and connection we shared, treasures for our future selves when our loved ones are no longer here.
Often, parents (and loved ones) may shy away from being recorded. They might not understand why you’re so insistent. Explain that it’s about preserving their stories, their spirit, and their legacy for generations to come. It’s not about vanity or perfection—it’s about love and remembrance.
I’m not suggesting you record every meal or mundane moment, but there are specific types of memories that become priceless over time. If you’re unsure where to start, here are five moments that are worth capturing:
5 Profound Moments to Capture on Video
1. Storytelling Moments
Record your mom sharing her favorite memories, childhood stories, or family traditions.
Ask her questions about her life—what was her proudest moment? What advice would she give her younger self? These conversations preserve her voice and wisdom in the most personal way.
2. Celebrations and Milestones
Capture birthday toasts, holiday gatherings, or even simple family dinners where everyone is together.
These moments often hold the joy, laughter, and love that define family life, and they’re a beautiful way to remember how she celebrated life.
3. Everyday Interactions
Sometimes, it’s the unscripted moments that mean the most—her laughing at a joke, singing along to her favorite song, or cooking a meal she loves.
These seemingly small moments can become the ones that feel most vivid and comforting later.
4. Words of Wisdom
Encourage her to share her thoughts on topics that matter to her—parenting advice, her views on love and happiness, or what she wants future generations to know about her life.
These videos can become a guidebook of her values and insights for your family.
5. Expressions of Love
Record her talking about what she loves most about life, her family, and even her hopes for you. Hearing her voice say “I love you” will be a source of comfort you’ll cherish forever.
A Gift for the Future
When you take videos of your mom, you’re not just capturing moments; you’re preserving her essence—her smile, her laughter, her voice—for years to come. These videos can be shared with children, grandchildren, and even great-grandchildren who may never have had the chance to meet her but will feel her spirit through these digital keepsakes.
So, grab your phone, and don’t be afraid to hit record. One day, you’ll be so grateful that you did.
With love and remembrance,
Kinyatta Gray
Founder, The Heart of Miss Bee, Inc.
About Kinyatta E. Gray
Kinyatta E. Gray is an author, entrepreneur, and founder of The Heart of Miss Bee, Inc., a nonprofit that provides compassionate support to women who have lost their mothers. Since her mother’s passing, Kinyatta has turned her grief into a driving force, building a legacy that speaks to resilience, purpose, and healing. She has published several books, launched a successful nonprofit, and created programs that help others navigate the path of loss.